An Avocation!!!

We come across so many different kinds of people in life. But when we meet some people alone, our instincts tell us that getting closer to this person could be fun. We may have all sorts of friends. But it is purely not in our hands. It is never possible to guess and state with surety that these two people will definitely be close friends. There may not be anything in common. But still it is not a criterion for a friend. Everything starts with hesitation. A smile relieves that hesitation to a certain extent. A smile becomes a "Hi" and as time progresses, the other person gets to know you more than you know about yourself!!! This is a generalised pattern. Any relationship has to go through all this. But what gives us the feeling before hand that this guy is going to be a great friend even without knowing anything about him?
We talk. We share incidents. We create memories to be cherished later. We enjoy each other`s company. But it sound very abstruse to me. We keep telling each other that at no point of time are we going to part ways. But we digress as soon as a fight crops up. Bitter fights grow too just like weeds along with plants. We know that the horizon is just a "compromise" away but still we refuse to do it most of the times. Is it ego? Is it adamance? Is it because of expectations?
The world might think that two people get along very well with each other. But we never know what actually is going on between the two. Fights, Misunderstanding, Harsh words that stem deep into oneself (which of course is regretted on reaching a compomise ) are the spoilers. But on reaching a compromise, it should be made sure that the same thing does not happen again. If one person expresses discomfort over something that might involve the other person, the other person should try not repeating it again. If it is repeated, life becomes meaningless and leads to endless fights and bitterness. Just because i come up with such a post, it doesnt mean i dont do all these things. No one is perfect. We all make mistakes. But its practically useless to repeat the mistakes. I try my level best not to commit them again and again. Its just an idealized situation that i m penning here. If such a tenet is implemented, life`s beautiful and everything that it has got to offer is enjoyable!!!