I`m not very attracted to the idea of sitting leisurely and tuning in to some radio channel and keep listening. I just happened to tune into Radio Mirchi today morning... Think i left something??? errr... yaa... "Semma Hot Machi!!!". Some nice song was playing. Once that finished, there was this RJ`s voice, part of which i could not comprehend because of the speed. I m sick of this. I really have no clue why they have to speed up things when they are talking. They have ample time, the whole time slot is theirs, yet they fly as if they have no time to spare!!! Anyways coming to the topic... Some programme called 'Ladies Colony' was being aired. And it had some interesting topic of discussion. So i decided to listen further.. The topic goes like this... "A recent survey reveals that 32% of the females in India consume alcohol. And more importantly, it is more than the number of men who consume alcohol in the country". For obvious reasons, the callers where females, for it was a ladies only show. So some caller comes online and argues "Instead of we bothering of the male-female statistics it is more important for us to consider numbers on the whole. Nevertheless alcohol consumption is injurious to health. So there is no need to consider men and female numbers separately for our aim should be towards reducing numbers on the whole rather than blaming the females for such high consumption rates." This was the first caller. The next caller quoted.. "Women in India are considered to be very divine. They command a lot of divinity. People have a lot of respect for Women in India. So thats why we get alarmed by the statistics. But there is nothing great about the statistics. I cannot infer anything of much consequence from the statistics ". Callers who followed based their arguments on the same lines. Atlast, after lot of waiting, there was one caller who really argued that the numbers really show how the standards are going down and how women need to mend ways. i noticed a 5:1 ratio. If 5 people said that overall reduction is needed, 1 said women needed to mend their way of life. Amidst all this talking, the RJ never allows the callers to express their ideas on the topic. Before they could express their view, the RJ asks whether women statistics alone is important or we should be bothered about the overall alcohol consumption rate. Obviously, any women will opt for the latter option. The replies are perceived as if people are so bothered about the general welfare of the country.
Now lets analyze this a bit. What would have been the result of such a discussion if the women statistics weren't this high? In such a case, how many women would have argued for general welfare instead of criticizing men for high consumption rates?
I guess the case itself would have been different. The topic would have digressed totally and would have been mostly about husbands torturing their counterparts after consuming alcohol everyday, and things on similar lines. The discussion would have revolved around the attitude of men alone and general welfare would have stayed apart. I guess the ratio that i mentioned before would have inverted now.
I really feel women share equal status with men in this society. A lot of atonements have been made right from the time of independence. They take part in everything. There is no subordination or anything similar to it. They are respected a lot by everyone. So it is up to them to decide whether they really want to be high held or let down because of their unacceptable practices. Not drinking alone be banned, such ladies only shows should be banned too. The very fact that a topic of discussion is taken to discuss with ladies alone itself shows they themselves aren't prepared to share the status with men. Find one show where a topic is broached and only men are allowed to share their views. So its women who really think their state in the society is really bad, when it really isn't the case.
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i agree with you .. woman keep on asking for equal status and if they are given they just raise an eyebrow and again start the same thing .. !! ..
one thing is that women do not place men in such a respect as men place women .. its obvious and clear .. that's why there is feminism in the first place !! ..
wait a minute..does it mention the average quantity of alcohol taken cause if its very small it becomes an irrelevant topic. Besides i think this anti alcohol thing is over rated ..i would rather prefer bottle wielding females than those overbearing, society welfare loving ones. I think we should view this differently..this is a sign that females in India have broken the hold men had over liquor (applause) this is progress (more applause). I think tr could make a good movie out of all this. Female who drinks a lot and tr coming to her rescue and treating us with a thought provoking film. Of course mumtaz should be cast as the lead kudikari. I can almost imagine a dance sequence involving a drunk mumtaz and a sober tr infront of a wine shop. Think I've got an excellent idea for a blogpost. thanks
@dr very stangelove,
As of your comment u would have won great applause for this comment if the owner of this blog did not know about you :P . Me knowing about you entirely, i know what kinda female you expect, ROU** , PI**... now added to that is DR***!!
About the TR thing, it might be funny and entertaining but never practical. we have a another TR on the making here!!!
now who/what is ROU**, PI** and DR***
Ahem ..i'm a girl ..
Now, the problem arises because social drinking is looked down at in most families /parts of india.
Where as you need alcohol / wine to keep yourself warm in american / european countries, in tropical places like india, its more of an indulgence than a lifestyle add-on.
Particularly, i come from a family where social drinking is accepted, its an individual mindset .. imo, its got nothing to do with the ways of indians or rather indian females ;)
Going into the 'survey', there's simply no way women can quantitatively drink more than men,as a woman's body cannot take /digest it ..what amount can get a regular male drinker high, has the potential to make a regular female drinker die.
so, i guess they took into the number of people boozing, not the amount consumed.
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